Happiness might just be hiding behind that choice. The relationship between choice and control steers our life's direction. And much of this balance lies in what we're willing to let go of, and let exist outside of our control.

Toilet brushes are great philosophical tools in my life because they force me to ask a single question: Am I prepared to deal with my own sh*t today?

Knowing how little you matter is very important for your mental health and your happiness. Giving ourselves daily reminders of our tiny place in the world gives us perspective, and this can free us to chase what we want.